The Simple Trick That Makes Your Phone Less Distracting—And Why It Works

Smartphones have become indispensable tools for staying connected, but they’ve also quietly eroded our ability to be present in the moment. How many times have you been out with friends or family, only for the conversation to stall as everyone instinctively reaches for their phone to check notifications? This phenomenon, known as “phubbing” (phone snubbing), is more common than we’d like to admit—and it’s chipping away at the quality of our real-world interactions.

Even when it’s unintentional, constantly glancing at your phone can make others feel overlooked or unimportant. If you’re looking to be more engaged during dinners, meetings, or social gatherings, a simple yet powerful habit can help: keeping your phone face down.

I’ll admit, I’ve been guilty of prioritizing my screen over the person in front of me. And while there’s nothing wrong with responding to an urgent message or sharing a funny TikTok, I’ve realized I spend far too much time glued to my device—often doomscrolling through endless feeds. These days, when I’m not actively using my phone, I make a conscious effort to keep it out of sight and out of mind. If I do need to have it nearby, I almost always place it face down. Here’s why this small change can make a big difference.

It Protects Your Phone Screen

The first reason I keep my phone screen turned away is purely practical: when my phone isn’t in my pocket, it’s usually sitting on a desk or table—often dangerously close to a glass of water or a mug of coffee. As someone who’s spilled beverages on their phone more times than I’d like to admit, I’ve learned the hard way that even water-resistant phones aren’t immune to accidents. By keeping the screen hidden, I reduce the risk of damage from splashes or spills. For added protection, I use a phone case with raised edges to shield the screen from crumbs, debris, or other hazards that might be lurking on the table.

My CNET colleague David Carnoy shared a cautionary tale: he was charging his phone on his kitchen counter with the screen face up when someone accidentally dropped a mug on it, cracking the screen. He didn’t have a screen protector at the time, but he’s learned his lesson. Don’t make the same mistake—protect your device by keeping it face down.

It Could Help Save Your Phone Battery

Another compelling reason to keep your phone face down is battery conservation. When your screen is visible, it lights up every time you receive a notification, even if you don’t interact with it. While a single notification won’t drain your battery, the cumulative effect can be significant—especially if you’re part of multiple group chats or have notifications enabled across all your apps. Some teenagers receive hundreds of notifications a day, and each one triggers the screen to turn on, consuming precious battery life. By keeping your phone face down, you can minimize unnecessary screen activations and extend your battery life throughout the day.

It Shows That You’re Paying Attention

Keeping your phone face down is also a subtle but effective way to demonstrate good social etiquette. When you’re spending time with someone, hiding your screen signals that you’re not going to let notifications distract you. This is especially important in dimly lit settings like bars or restaurants, where a glowing screen can be particularly disruptive. I want to focus on the person I’m talking to, not on the constant barrage of alerts lighting up my device.

As clinical psychologist Michelle Davis from Headspace explains, “Eye contact is one of the most powerful forms of human connection. Neuroscience research indicates that when two people make direct eye contact, their brain activity begins to synchronize, supporting more effective communication and increasing empathy. This synchrony can be disrupted when attention shifts to a phone, even briefly.” By keeping your phone face down, you’re prioritizing the person in front of you and fostering deeper, more meaningful connections.

It Minimizes Your Phone’s Presence

On a more personal note, I’ve come to realize that my phone takes up too much space in my life—literally and figuratively. Since upgrading from my iPhone Mini to a larger model, I’ve noticed how much more attention-grabbing the bigger screen is. It’s constantly vying for my focus, competing with the people, books, and experiences that truly matter. While I appreciate the improved battery life, I can’t ignore the fact that my phone has become a constant source of distraction.

Unfortunately, small smartphones are a thing of the past. Today’s devices are bigger, better, and more adept at capturing our attention. But there’s one simple thing I can do to minimize its presence: keep the screen turned away from me whenever possible. It’s a small act of defiance against the constant pull of technology, and it helps me reclaim a sense of control over my attention.

In a world where escaping our phones feels nearly impossible, this small habit is a step in the right direction. Whether phones evolve into new form factors or remain as they are, I can’t predict the future. But I can control how I interact with my device in the present. By keeping my phone face down, I’m choosing to prioritize the people and moments that matter most.

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